โWeโve learned how to pretend to care โ but forgotten how to truly love.โ
Look around and youโll see a world full of noise but empty of affection. We speak of โloveโ endlessly, yet so few of us actually know how to live it. Love has been commercialized, sexualized, politicized โ and stripped of its sacred meaning.

When people hear the word love, they immediately think of romance or sex. But love is so much greater than that. Itโs the unspoken bond between a father and his son, a mother and her daughter, a brother who protects his sister, a husband who sacrifices for his wife, a friend who stands beside you when no one else will.
Real love is selfless. Itโs the quiet strength that carries you when the world falls apart.
๐ The Death of Genuine Affection
We live in a time when showing love is seen as weakness.
A father hugging his son too tightly is told heโs โtoo emotional.โ
A friend expressing care is accused of having โan agenda.โ
A husband trying to protect his wife is called โcontrolling.โ
A woman showing loyalty is mocked for being โold-fashioned.โ
Every gesture of tenderness is now measured, questioned, or coded through the lens of suspicion.
People donโt know how to give love anymore because they fear being misunderstood.
They donโt know how to receive love anymore because they doubt itโs real.
And so, humanity retreats โ into its screens, its labels, its pride โ slowly forgetting the warmth of genuine connection.
๐งฑ When Love Is Replaced by Lust and Labels
The world glorifies what God calls confusion.
It celebrates lust and calls it freedom.
It celebrates rebellion and calls it authenticity.
It celebrates perversion and calls it pride.
Yet when someone shows true love โ patient, kind, forgiving โ it makes others uncomfortable.
They see evil where there is purity, manipulation where there is sincerity.
Theyโve been so conditioned by fake affection that real love looks foreign.
โWoe to those who call evil good and good evil.โ โ Isaiah 5:20
We are witnessing a time when people are more comfortable celebrating chaos than compassion.
When we canโt distinguish lust from love, or sin from sincerity, our souls lose direction.
โค๏ธ Love Is the Language of God
True love has no agenda, no politics, no performance.
It is not filtered through identity or desire.
It is the reflection of Godโs heart within us โ patient, merciful, unconditional.
When a mother comforts her child, thatโs love.
When a father works long nights to feed his family, thatโs love.
When friends forgive each other after years of distance, thatโs love.
When a spouse remains faithful through storms and trials, thatโs love.
That is the love that holds civilizations together โ and without it, everything collapses.
โ๏ธ Fear Has Made Us Clumsy
People today are terrified of love. Theyโve been trained to act polite, not genuine.
They smile but do not feel.
They speak but do not mean.
They touch but do not connect.
All behavior has been codified, like software: programmed by trends, social pressure, and fear of rejection.
We are so afraid to make others uncomfortable that we no longer comfort at all.
We are so afraid of being judged that we no longer show our hearts.
But love without courage is dead.
If love doesnโt risk, it doesnโt live.
๐ Thrive on More Love
Thrive on more love means rejecting the counterfeit. It means:
- Loving your family with honesty, not performance.
- Showing kindness without needing applause.
- Forgiving those who donโt deserve it โ because love is mercy.
- Teaching your children that love is not a feeling, but a choice.
- Living as a reminder that light still exists in the darkness.
We donโt need more ideologies. We need more compassion.
We donโt need more pride. We need more humility.
We donโt need more noise. We need more love.
๐ Closing Prayer
โLord, teach us how to love again.
Strip away the fear, the pride, the confusion that blinds our hearts.
Let us show love that reflects Your nature โ pure, patient, and eternal.
Heal our homes, restore our families, and awaken our hearts.
May we live not for lust or applause, but for love โ the kind that changes lives.
Amen.โ
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